Here’s today’s, spoonful of courage. Yesterday I had one of the most eye-opening experiences. I dropped my wife off at the hospital with people I didn’t even know to have a surgery in a state far away from where we live, and I experienced an emotion called separation anxiety. If you think about it, everybody is experiencing separation anxiety in some form or fashion. It may be not being able to visit with your loved ones for Christmas. It may be having a loved one behind a door in an I C U or in a hospital suffering with COVID where you can’t be there. It may be that you’re, a senior adult, and you’re quarantined to your house and unable to see people because of the COVID virus. I want to remind you of one thing. Separation anxiety, in a sense, has some opportunities that we can benefit from. If you think about the upper room discourse and the time beforeJesus left, he told the disciples he was leaving. There was a lot of separation anxiety. Thomas asked Lord: where are you going? Everybody told Jesus, no. No, you can’t, go. You can’t leave us. We need you Jesus. But you see in that time of separation, there was something very wonderful happening in that time of separation. Jesus gave some promises to the disciples. He reminded them that he would not leave them alone, that he was going to send the Holy Spirit who would live inside them, and they would not be hindered from any type of geographic location. Nothing could keep them from being with God. The Holy Spirit would be inside and they would do greater works. What a wonderful gift that was. But it all began with separation. And so, if you’re going through a time of separation, let me remind you that this is just for a season. God has a plan for this. God has an opportunity for this, and he has also promised that he will never leave us. Hebrews 13 5 says that i will never leave you or forsake. You have a good Christmas.

Is the COVID Vaccine Safe

Here’s a video which explains the science behind the COVID vaccine and dispels some of the myths in the media.

We’ve, been hearing a lot of myths about the covid vaccine and how it can incorporate inside the human genome, cause a chimera type phenomenon or maybe infertility. I want to dispel some of those myths that we’re hearing in the media and give you an understanding of some basic cell biology. I’m, Dr. Page, the best guy to see on the worst day of your life. I’m, not an immunologist. I’m a surgeon, but I graduated with a degree in cell biology from college. I’m, not a rocket scientist. I want to explain to this to you in a way that you can understand. Imagine this being a cell in your body. Right in the middle is something that we call the nucleus. Inside the nucleus of the cell is where your DNA, your human genome, all of your genetic material is located. It looks kind of like a ladder. It’s, all scrunched up together, but what the DNA does in the nucleus is. The DNA is the genetic code, making messages called messenger rna. The DNA unfolds. It unzips, making mrna. And what happens to this rna out in the cytoplasm outside of the nucleus? This process called translation is the process of making dna to rna. That s called transcription. When you would transcribe something you don’t really change the message. What happens when rna is made by the dna? is called translation. It’s translated into a protein, something very different. We call that translation, okay and what what happens here is that rna in the cytoplasm outside of the nucleus changes that message into protein. Now, what’s interesting about the COVID vaccine is that ‘s its made of mRNA. That message that would make a virus protein. Vaccines have worked in the past have been made of protein. When we inject the protein in the body, it recognizes and attacks the foreign material. What scientists have done is they’ve, taken a step back and they’ve made the precursor to the protein. They’ve, actually made the message, the mrna. It comes inside your cells and your body converts that message into the protein. Your body recognizes that as a foreign material. You develop this immunologic reaction. An immune response. So it has a lipid membrane and it looks kind of like a half ladder. It’s, this genetic code that comes into the cell now. The misunderstanding here is that somehow people think that this mrna can somehow get inside the nucleus and can incorporate into the human genome. There’s, really not a lot of science behind that. In fact, it would be a Rare exception–a one in a million. If it did happen it probably wouldn’t make a difference anyway. It would be the exception for that to happen. Understand the basic science. This will help, you understand this myth that somehow we have this conspiracy. No one’s trying to change our human genome or trying to put something in our body that can be tracked. There’s little scientific basis behind it. Basically, all this is is a precursor message that your body will convert into protein. Very quickly, it will be digested and forgotten. The COVID vaccine doesn’t incorporate into the human genome. I got my vaccine. I think you should consider it, if you’re at high risk for having problems.

This Really Happened. The Bear That Wouldn’t Let Go.

We can learn a lot from this bear’s tenacity. He wouldn’t let go.

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Here’s your spoonful of courage for the day 00:00:07 I want to tell you a true story that I heard when I was in New Mexico this summer on vacation 00:00:11 the story of a man his name is Mr Bridges and he was a guide and was up on a ranch with his 00:00:17 dogs and was attacked by a bear now apparently this bear was having a bad day and he attacked mr bridges and 00:00:24 they got in a tussle and of course what a what a mess but anyway the man shot the bear several times with his gun 00:00:31 and the bear latched on to his leg and uh clinched down on his leg and wouldn’t 00:00:36 let go well fortunately the man was able to kill the bear by shooting him in the head 00:00:41 and the interesting thing is that even when the ems got there they were unable to detach 00:00:47 the bear from the man’s leg i mean the man took his pocket knife and tried to cut the bear’s head off 00:00:52 and the Emergency Medical Services ultimately had to cut off the spine and dismember the head from the rest of the 00:00:58 body Mr. Bridges went to the emergency room apparently with the bear still clenched onto his leg you know 00:01:05 like that old bear we need to have that kind of tenacious ability to hold on to the things that 00:01:12 god wants us to hold onto let me read to you this verse in Hebrews chapter 10 00:01:18 it’s verse 23. It says this let us hold fast to the confession of our hope without wavering 00:01:25 for he who promised is faithful you know like that bear we need to hold fast to some things. 00:01:33 We need to clench our jaws into god’s truth and this confession of hope that we have. 00:01:38 Never let go we’re living in crazy chaotic times from the COVID 19 pandemic, to riots to 00:01:46 political unrest, to you know the uncertainty of really knowing what’s real and what’s unreal and the media 00:01:52 these days and I just want to help you to stay focused and realize that we need to hold fast to this 00:02:01 confession of hope we know that as this verse says god is faithful 00:02:06 faithful and that he is going to work out his purposes not only in our life but in our world 00:02:13 for his pleasure i’m dr page the best guy to see on the worst day of your life and by the way 00:02:20 you can find the link to this story that i’ve enclosed please subscribe and share

Living with Regrets

Is it possible to live a life free from regret? In this episode Joe and Chuck discuss the matter, how to view our past mistakes, and how to move forward.

LAL # 2–Celebrate Good Times with Grammy Winner, Skip Martin

Part One of Interview

LAL interviews Music legend, Skip Martin. Here, Skip tells about his new writing ventures. His children’s book Morgan, The Clydesdale Pony. He gives some life lessons from his new book, Fables from a Pied Piper where he shares his three C’s to living a successful, happy life.

An Idea for having a good retirement: Writing

Mark Bruce is an emergency room physician who in transitioning into retirement. He has recently released his first book and talks about it with us on LAL:

Skip Martin is a grammy award winner. He has worked with Kool and the Gang and the Dazz Band. In his sixties, Skip is moving into a new realm. Writing. He has written a children’s book and memoirs, Fables from a Pied Piper. LAL interviews him on this video below:

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Age with grace

Who are the Baby Boomers?


We’ve arrived. Baby Boomers are retiring. In 2011, the first round of Baby Boomers—those Americans born between 1946 and 1964—turned 65. From then until 2030, 10,000 Baby Boomers each day will hit retirement age. Millions will retire, collect social security checks and go on Medicare. Other Boomers will keep on working either out of financial necessity or out of some less tangible need like identity and self-worth.

In the several decades prior to the Boom, babies in the U.S. were born at a rate of about 2.5 million a year. Then in 1946, this rate exploded to 3.4 million and maintained this pace for the next few decades. The peak years were 1957 and 1961 with 4.3 million births a year. In all, these years produced about 76 million Baby Boomers.

Understanding Baby Boomers

Are you a Baby Boomer? Do you have a loved one that’s a Boomer? This generation was one of the largest in American history, and it is perhaps one of the most important right now when it comes to senior living. This group of people has very unique personalities, and their life histories are vastly different than today’s younger generation. So, who are the Baby Boomers?

Baby Boomers were born in an era that experienced great U.S. political and social upheaval. From race riots to the Civil Rights Movement, Vietnam protests, the assassinations of JFK, MLK and RFK, and the man on the moon to free love and drug experimentation, Boomers saw a U.S. that was both financially prosperous and socially turned on its head. Consider the U.S. economy between 1940 and 1960:

  • Gross National Product doubled
  • Real purchasing power increased by 30%
  • Four-fifths of American families owned at least one car
  • Home ownership increased to 61%

Boomers are often labeled as individualist, selfish, cynical, pessimistic, narcissistic, and socially responsible. But it’s hard to label a group that came into the world over a nearly two decade stretch—so much happened so fast over those years. Many are certainly looser with social conventions than their parents.

Asking the question, who are the baby boomers can be understand by the decades in which they were born. In one survey, 44% of Baby Boomers were fine with sex outside marriage, 37% approved of casual sex, 29% approved of legalizing marijuana. Americans born in the 40s were dancing to Buddy Holly one decade and starting their careers the next. Boomers born in the 50s grew up with the Beatles, Dylan and the Stones, and protested the Vietnam War in college. The 60s Boomers caught the tail end of Vietnam, Watergate and Richard Nixon’s resignation and Disco.

The following Baby Boomer statistics may surprise, frighten or enlighten you:

  • Baby Boomers make up 28% of the population.
  • Baby Boomers are responsible for over half of consumer spending.
  • Baby Boomers control 80% of personal financial assets.
  • One in three Americans over 65 relies on Social Security benefits alone.
  • Three out four claim benefits when they turn 62 out of financial necessity.
  • In 2010 Social Security paid out more in benefits than it received in tax payments.
  • In 1950, 16 workers paid for each retiree’s SS benefit; In 2010, it was 3.3 workers and by 2025 it’s projected to be two workers.

40% of Boomers plan to “work until I drop” according to an AARP survey.

After 16 long years of depression and war, Americans longed for a time of normalcy. This is what led to the incredible numbers of births in the years following the wars. And, older Americans who had previously put off getting married and having children during the rough years of the Great Depression followed by the war were not able to do so.

Characteristics of Baby Boomers

One thing that makes this group so interesting is their confidence in the future. After such long battles, this group is known for its positive, confident attitude that the future looked comfortable and prosperous. And, they were accurate for many reasons. During their lifetimes, they watched businesses grow and become profitable. They watched labor unions to help to improve working conditions for people. And, they saw wages rise. They also saw schools become more accessible.

And, perhaps one of the biggest changes to hit Americans happened during their lifetime. People moved to the suburbs. Baby Boomers were able to build their own homes using developers who were now using faster methods to building homes. It was more affordable to buy a home, build a home, and access the funds to do so through the GI Bill. Their homes changed, too. For the first time, there were spaces meant for fun such as “family rooms.”

Baby Boomers were a hard-working generation. And, they value that hard work. Yet, they also have a strong desire to enjoy a higher quality of life. Some of the key characteristics of these individuals include:

  • They valued individual choice.
  • They saw community involvement as necessary and essential.
  • They sought health and wellness in new ways.
  • They were self-actualizing.
  • They wanted and worked hard to earn prosperity.
  • They sought ownership of businesses and homes.
  • They were confident in the tasks they had to do.
  • They worked hard to avoid conflicts and sought a more pleasant way to communicate.
  • They adapted easily to change.
  • They also had a maintained positive attitude throughout their days.
  • Most are very goal oriented, but they also worked well in teams.

This generation also began the movements towards equal rights, and they understood the pressures of failure. Yet, they continued to work hard to achieve the goals they set out.

Baby Boomers vs. Millennials

Baby Boomers are quite different from Millennials. For example, they are far more conservative and less likely to speak out than Millennials are. Millennials tend to be significantly more progressive on social issues. Whereas Baby Boomers thrived on supporting the whole family unit with a married set of parents, Millennials are less focused on getting married and more likely to support gay marriage. They are also more likely to support the legalization of marijuana and are less likely to be religious.

Baby Boomers: born between 1946 and 1964 (ages 56 to 74 in 2020)

Generation X: born between 1965 and 1980 (ages 40 to 55 in 2020) 

Millennials: born between 1981 and 1996 (ages 24 to 39 in 2020)

Generation Z: born between 1997 and 2012 (ages 8 to 23 in 2020)

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Here’s a list of some of the topics we discuss on our shows:

Aging Tips

Caring for loved ones with dementia

How to be a caregiver

Joys of successful aging

Aging gracefully

Challenges of retirement

What to do when you retire

Travel lifestyle in retirement

Part time jobs for retirees

Coping with sickness

Medical problems related to aging and the elderly

Exercise for seniors

Strength and exercises for senior adults

Retirement lifestyle issues

Depression and loneliness in the elderly

How to overcome depression

How to overcome loneliness

Things to do for retired people

Ways to contribute to the younger people

How to raise and influence grandchildren

How to deal with adult children and their problems

How to have a good retirement.

Sharing your experiences with others

Sharing your life lessons with others

How to make a difference in your community

How to make a difference in your family

How to live life to the fullest as you age

Inspiration for daily living

How to leave a legacy to your family

Tips for Boomers in retirement

How to cope with cancer

How to cope with dementia

How to cope with adult children

How to raise your grandkids

Financial planning for retirement

Finding a doctor with medicare

How to find a doctor

How to deal with the medical system

The joys of aging

The challenges of aging

How to make end of life decisions

How to set up an advanced directive

How to set up a will

Leaving a legacy for your family

Leaving a legacy for your grandkids

Faith and aging

Leaving a legacy of faith

Examples of retirees making a difference

Making a difference in your community

Opportunities for retirees to serve others

Opportunities for the aged to make a difference

Giving back to your community when you’re old

Value of giving back to your community

Ideas for giving charity

Why giving back to your community is important

Elderly serving in church

Understanding the younger generation

How to understand other generations

Older sharing with younger generation

Sharing wisdom with younger generation

Old but still useful

Retired heroes

Best part time job for retirees

Best part time job for retired people

What to do in retirement

Jobs for retired people

Business ideas for the retired person

Best jobs for senior citizens

Employment for seniors

*Senior citizens who make a difference

Senior citizens who make a difference

Senior citizens who share with others

Senior citizens who leave a legacy

Senior citizens who pray for others

Senior citizens who encourage others

Senior citizens who volunteer in their community

Senior citizens who help others

Senior citizens tell their stories

Senior citizens with stories to tell

Senior citizens with stories to tell you

Grandpa tells stories

Grandpa tells war stories

Grandpa tells childhood stories

Grandpa’s lonely

Grandma’s lonely

Community projects for seniors

Loneliness in old age

Loneliness in older people

How to cope with loneliness

Senior citizens finding purpose

Senior citizens staying busy

The benefits of being a senior citizen

Senior citizens and loneliness

Where senior citizens should invest their money

Financial tips for senior citizens

Income for senior citizens

Financial plan for senior citizens

Best investment option for senior citizens

Choosing a retirement home

Choosing an assisted living facility

Tips for choosing long term care

How to choose assisted living

Guide to choose assisted living facility

Home care vs nursing home

Questions to ask when choosing an assisted living facility

Questions to ask when choosing a nursing home

Questions to ask when choosing a home health agency

Choosing a home health agency

When choosing a caregiver

When choosing a caretaker

Home care

Choosing home care vs other options

Home care vs other options

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